The second chance in a relationship: when to use it
It happened in your life that you had to experience the separation, tears, and comforts of close friends. But alone, you catch yourself thinking that you are thinking of a former partner. Memories of happy moments of life together, scandals, dreams of the future do not leave you. Maybe you should forgive him and bring everything back?
We will analyze the pros and cons of giving a second chance to a relationship.
Your relationship with each other must change. After all, the former did not justify themselves and led to parting.
Relationships will sparkle in a new way if you try to change your behavior and look at the situation from the other side.
Honestly, answer yourself the question of what was wrong and what everyone wanted to get from this relationship. Then you will have the opportunity to make the current relationship happier if you agree on everything.
The second attempt can be successful if you are ready to understand your requirements and convey them to your partner. You must invent a new approach to fulfill your desire. And of course, your partner should agree to try renewing the relationship by changing it.
“Against.” If little time has passed after the breakup, then perhaps your desire to resume relations is caused by a fear of loneliness or nostalgia.
It is better to recall not only all the good but also the bad moments, that is, the reason for the separation. If you broke up due to the fact that you do not see a future life with this person, then in a month or even six months of separation, the situation will not change.
People almost never change. Look at your friends, they have changed a lot over the years of dating. The essence always remains the same, regardless of external changes. Often people break up due to unsatisfactory relationships in order to develop.
The main sign that you don’t need to come back if you perfectly understand that with this man, you will never come true of the dreams of the life you desire. Do not waste your life on a person with whom you will certainly be unhappy. There may be several relationships, but life is just one.